Dad Gets Slammed Online For Refusing To Attend Daughter's Baby Shower After Home Repair Argument

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Dads and daughters have a special bond. Girls look to their fathers to lay a foundation of security, trust, and love. Not all dad-daughter relationships are perfect, however, and even good fathers can make mistakes.

One dad shared the story of his fractured relationship with her daughter on Reddit. The 71-year-old father, who is known in the community as u/DIYdadFLguy15, got into a falling-out with his pregnant daughter, Cara, because of a failed home repair project.

This issue started when he offered to help install new floors on his daughter's home. He made a recommendation to demo floors and cabinets, which he promised to fix. But, because of his busy schedule and other unforeseen factors, the project turned out to be bigger than he anticipated and wasn't repaired as quickly as everyone hoped. All the mess caused stress on Cara, who was worried it might affect her pregnancy.

The two tried to talk it out and Cara claims the dad didn't want to take ownership of the problem, while the dad didn't think he did anything wrong at all. Now, he is refusing to attend his daughter's upcoming baby shower and the two are not talking anymore.

Is he wrong for not lowering his pride?

Dad Didn't Do The Home Repair Right, Causing Stress On His Pregnant Daughter

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He Is Refusing To Attend His Daughter's Baby Shower Because Of The Rift

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How Dads Influence Their Daughters' Lives

Fathers play a critical role in their daughters' lives. Women who grow up with a strong bond with their dads tend to have higher self-esteem and greater life satisfaction. Those who have unhealthy relationships with their fathers are more prone to anxiety and depression in their adulthood.

"It would be difficult to overstate the powerful influence that fathers have in the shaping of their daughters' views about their own self-image, values, sexuality, relationships, and their right to determine the course of their own lives," explains Dr. Gary Brown to Redbook.

This is why it's important to nurture the father-daughter bond. While it's inevitable to run into issues, most problems can be resolved with a good talk.

In the OP's case, his daughter's family wanted to sort out the situation but he was still being stubborn and firm on not wanting to go to the baby shower.

The AITA community agreed that he was being a jerk and he should not let his bruised ego ruin the coming of his new grandchild.

The Community Agreed That The Dad Was Being A Huge A**Hole

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Many Said That He Left His Pregnant Daughter High And Dry

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This Commenter Said That The OP Was Playing Expert And Gave Bad Advice

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